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Is that an IV drip on an Angkor bas relief?

22 March 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment


Photos courtesy of K. Estela

Ha– no wonder there’s such a problem with IV use here LOL!

Without regulatory standards and mechanisms such as licensing or accreditation, quality of care is partly determined by consumer demand. People more often than not believe the more invasive or expensive a treatment, the more effective. This means treating simple fatigue with an intravenous drip instead of coconut juice ($10 vs $0.25)! IV drips are VERY popular; fishermen coming in from a long night out on the water will often seek IV treatment. Some pharmacists even color it (food coloring usually) because people associate the color with increased potency! Patients hooked up to their IV drips while riding on the back of a moto is a common sight on the streets (I just wish I can grab a picture of that!)

Hmm.. that sure looks like an IV drip…

Filed Under: Life, Travels Tagged With: Angkor Wat, Cambodia, intravenous, IV, IV drip, Siem Reap

Zen for aid and development

8 March 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

Cambodia is a tad far from the hubs of Zen interest, but its philosophy is apt because we are not without the onslaught of rabid change in Phnom Penh, given vast sums of development aid and foreign investment. It’s interesting to see a newly minted middle class so taken with modernisation and the rush of consumerist culture. Well, interesting but sad at the same time, because embrace of materialistic entertainment culture–or rather, lust for it– comes at the expense of so many beautiful elements Khmer and Angkorian, that is steadily lost to antiquity.

An interesting development to highlight this was during the Chinese New Year celebrations this year (Chinese and Khmer traditions are embraced in Cambodia). Tradition has it that various gods ascend to the heavens to pay respects and report on human affairs to the Jade Emperor, the Supreme Taoist deity. People burn ritualistic paper money to assist with the gods’ travel. This year, paper Lexus, cell phones, TVs and other upmarket goods were added to the paper money that the custom was traditionally limited to… Khmers are also increasingly placing value on goods owned rather than the person, and treating each other accordingly to displayed wealth. I suppose there are parallels to other societies that similarly experienced sudden affluence… It is just rather discomfiting to see it in fast-forward in a third-world country…

Zen is about waking up to the present moment, perceiving a reality that is exactly as it is, rather than via a biased wall of emotions, opinions, judgments. It is a discipline of simplicity, in all manner of action, thought, being. Popular culture attributes it to Japanese development, but it is believed to have evolved from the Chinese interpretation of the Buddhist concept of enlightenment, and then from the stories of Buddha in India. (I’m not an expert in Eastern philosophies, so please correct as necessary!)

It’s a fitting philosophy for aid and development workers who work abroad and see these fast-paced changes. What with incongruous goals for “harmonisation” among partners, contradictory practices to policies, conflicting commitments and underlying motives for “aid” from every actor, it’s a quagmire difficult to navigate.

To bring it down to a bite-sized personal lifestyle application to start, there is an upshot to moving every few years –being forced to simplify regularly! It’s beyond practical to discard junk; minimalism contributes to mental well-being and productivity, especially in places far removed from the physical order and organisation of back home and cycling through processes with a fair share of destructive side effects.

So for the expatriate life, a Zen start to the working and living space: there’s a lot of junk out there to process– Ditch the clutter, physically and mentally!

Filed Under: Work Tagged With: lifestyle, minimalism, zen

Where does aid money come from?

2 March 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

This interactive map with accompanying document shows the source of aid by country, and maps other interesting information such as corruption, natural disasters, security risk areas, etc. (If aid map is not the default, click the scroll-down map to ‘aid’.)

Aid began after WWII in the new international economic system. Supporting insufficient capital flows in developing countries became part of the Cold War politics. OECD collects data on Official Development Assistance, which does not include funds from philantrophic sources, private foundations, or NGOs.

To address poverty, in a 1970 UN resolution, industrialised nations committed 0.7% of their GNI towards international aid. Of the 22 OECD Development Assistance Committee (DAC) countries, only five regularly meet this target (Sweden, Norway, Luxembourg, the Netherlands and Denmark). On percentage of GNI, the US is one of the lowest contributors (0.18% in 2006), but in absolute amount, it is the highest contributor by almost twice the next country. That of course is now surpassed by the UK, given the devaluation of the dollar against the pound.

Filed Under: Work Tagged With: development, foreign aid

Foreign Aid and Development

1 March 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

It’s difficult not to be cynical given the futility and waste of many aid programmes, no matter the intent of individuals. The constraints of procurements, lack of transparency and accountability, coupled with donors’ foreign policies, often lead to inefficient and ineffective efforts. All for the sake of creating viable markets out of lagging economies?

The impact of foreign aid and development has received increased visibility and debate among the mainstream media lately. There’s a downloadable podcast on NPR’s Intelligence Squared, which hosts an Oxford-style debate on many topics. Is Aid to Africa Doing More Harm Than Good?, broadcast on 12 Dec 2007, offers interesting insights from both sides of the issue.

And the following is a foreign aid blog in the New York Times, by Nicholas D Kristof. What Aid Workers Do

Filed Under: Work Tagged With: development, foreign aid

Khmer Proverbs

1 March 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

Another activity for our team retreat aimed at cross-cultural issues is to come up with the most-recalled proverbs from growing up. Though many sayings cross boundaries, the ones best remembered by each group curiously was very telling of their cultural norms and tendencies.

The Germans came up with a list of sayings that depicted a society which valued order, regulation, and punctuality. The Filipino sayings depicted a god-fearing, eternally positive, and family-oriented people. Growing up in the US, adages and mottos which had most to do with taking advantage of opportunity and making money came easily to mind.

Here are some Khmer proverbs, which explain very many things which those of us from the West often frustratingly misunderstand. One which struck me in particular ran along the lines of “the egg cannot fight with or break a rock”, which translated into “might is right”. This explains the submissive nature of our Khmer colleagues to their superiors. They seem frequently impressed when subordinates argue with the boss.


Physical death is better than the death of your reputation (also “family’s reputation”). This explains the collectivist mindset in Asia. Dishonor to your name or your family/group results in being cast off, and that is worse than death.


Dual Translation: (1) Anger begets error; anger begets injury; anger begets waste; and (2) Anger is wrong; anger is wicked; anger is wasteful. This explains the vexing SE Asian trait of never showing emotion, and always smiling even through crises.


The immature rice stock stands erect; the mature stock hangs heavy with seeds.
Those lacking accomplishments (seeds) prop themselves up and boast of themselves (standing erect – a trait of the young). Those heavy with accomplishments have no need for boasting as they have already proven their worth and instead behave with humility (being hunched over – a trait of the elderly). Many sayings show the value of elderly people to society.


Willing to lose is divine; wanting to win is evil. Several beliefs and large-scale tendencies point to the Buddhist belief in accepting fate, so that aiming for achievement is futile.

. . . more proverbs on the Khmer Institute website.

Filed Under: Travels Tagged With: Cambodia, East-West, Khmer, khmer proverbs

East-West Cultural Differences

29 February 2008 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

We recently had a team retreat where cross-cultural issues was the popular topic. Misunderstandings happen frequently due to diametrically opposed personalities, working culture, and approach to negotiations by the Khmers, Filipinos, Germans, and American.

Below are pictorials of the cultural differences between East and West, designed by Liu Young who was born in China and lived in Germany.

Blue is Western, Red is Asian

Read this doc on Scribd: East-West by Liu Young

Filed Under: Work Tagged With: cultural differences, East-West

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