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Holiday windows in NYC

30 December 2017 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

It’s been a while since I posted. The NYC existence is more hyper-paced and complex than life was in Asia! On the one hand, there’s endless resources, not to mention a good network of similarly-minded families. I love the seasons, the snow and Christmas! Then on the other hand, I’ve never met so many medicated people before (e.g., Xanax)! Not sure if that’s a reflection of the circles I end up interacting with..? I’m sure the political situation has no small impact on this. For sure, the US environment is shockingly different after 11 years abroad, but it’s a more sobering change than a positive one. Anyway.. back to the cheerier topic of the holidays. We’re under a cold spell this past week but, unluckily enough (or maybe luckily!), we didn’t get any snow compared to the massive deluge that most of the Northeast experienced these past five days!

We were able to squeeze in the tourist trawl – past the Bloomingdales windows, through the five star hotel lobbies, down Fifth Avenue, taking in the windows of Bergdorf Goodman and Saks. Each of Bergdorf’s windows was designed by one of the city’s museums. So gorgeous – and then there’s Sak’s poshly decorated facade, complete with light show and blaring Christmas music you can hear from blocks away. We ducked away from that and into Rockefeller to show the kids the big tree. You’d think the crowds would be thin in this bitter cold but it isn’t. Fun times..

Happy holidays!

Window design by the New York Botanical Garden
Window designed by the New York Philharmonic
Window design by the New York Historical Society
Window design by the Museum of the Moving Image
Window design by the Museum of Natural History
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Filed Under: Life Tagged With: 2017, bergdorf goodman, rockefeller center

Pine cones and sticks and rocks oh my

13 December 2016 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

‘Tis the season. What do you do with all the sticks and rocks and pine cones that the kids drag in throughout the year? And the toys they’ve outgrown but have a special place in your memory? Repurpose and get creative with the Christmas decor, that’s what.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: christmas, christmas decor, christmas lights, decor, holidays, old toys, parenting, pine cone, pine cones, repurpose

Doll companies I’m happy to support

9 December 2016 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

At the time we lived in Southeast Asia there was a growing but tiny industry of local crafters that made blocks, stuffed animals, kitchen sets or doll houses, and other toys. We spent a lot on those, but they were locally sourced and well-crafted.

Coming back to NY was a different story. Options, wow. The pop culture focus of the toy industry, a profit-over-people corporate ethos, the consumerist culture – it’s over the top after several years abroad.

My little girl hit the doll phase this year and has been asking for one. But finding a toy company I’m happy to support is hard enough; Barbie, American Girl, and other chain store brands whose company values hew to the mainstream for profit’s sake won’t be getting my business. [Read more…] about Doll companies I’m happy to support

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: 18" doll, 18" dolls, carpatina, children, corolle, diverse, diversity, doll, dolls, eco, educational, ethical, ethical toy companies, green, kids, madame alexander, maplelea, maru, multicultural, multicultural dolls, my sibling dolls, paola reina, quality dolls, socially conscious, socially minded, tonner, toys

#KidLit for encouraging girls’ education

5 June 2016 by Nathalie Abejero 2 Comments

The challenge of educating girls (worldwide) is a complex topic, involving the myriad responsibilities placed on them by their households and communities. High opportunity costs make this a volatile issue for many poor rural families. With firsthand exposure to this important issue, it’s not a new conversation to our kids. This book makes it approachable.

Read around the world Running Shoes

It’s a particularly common problem in Cambodia. It’s capital, Phnom Penh, adapted quickly to the fast-paced world around it soon after emerging from decades of conflict.

But progress is slow to reach those less affluent and villages outside of the capital city and tourist towns like Siem Reap with Angkor Wat and Sihanoukville with its beaches. The gap between the educated and those still living out traditional agrarian cultures is vast, with girls and women bearing the brunt of poverty and its effects.

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Running Shoes, by Frederick Lipp, introduces this topic in a kid-friendly story about a girl whose one wish was to get running shoes. Her father died years ago because there was no health worker in her village. She spent her days helping out with farm chores and wasn’t able to attend the one school that was eight kilometers (5 miles) away on dirt roads. When a kind stranger finally granted her wish by sending her a new pair of running shoes, she was able to convince her mother to let her go to school. In the one-room schoolhouse of just boys, she was laughed at for telling the teacher she wanted to learn to read. “But you’re a girl!” they taunted her until she proved herself.

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The publisher is Open Book, an NGO that also maintains a library in Phnom Penh for children of all ages. It publishes a series of bilingual Khmer/English storybooks that gives readers a glimpse into the rural and city lives of aspiring young Khmer kids.

Travel and cultures are a large part of the homeschool curriculum for our kids. One of our lesson plans ties this theme in with research they do on causes that they wish to support. They’re just three and five, but their experience living, traveling and reading books like this one, helps them to appreciate their luck of birth.

The kids are old enough to get and manage an allowance, and a portion of it goes towards a cause they choose. One activity we’re exploring is supporting the education of girls. And possibilities for the next project include an effort called Proteep (ប្រទីប), meaning”light”, which was begun by our old Khmer tutor to educate girls in her village of Kampong Thom. See their story here, or check out their Facebook page.

Running Shoes is a short story that had our kids asking questions. Can’t anyone in her house teach her to read? Why does she have to go so far away? Why are there only boys in that school? Can she buy her own shoes now? I highly recommend it if you can get your hands on it!

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: Cambodia, change the world, empowerment, girls' education, kidlit, kids books, learning to read, multicultural kid blogs, read around the world, Soun Neang

Easy indoor vermicomposting in NYC

6 November 2015 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

My family and I just moved to NYC, and don’t have the outdoor space we had while living in Asia. So at first we just took food scraps to drop off when we shopped at the Greenmarket – New York City’s farmers’ market network – which is where we met Pamela, our market compost coordinator.

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A thick layer of moist newspaper strips on top of the compost smothers the fruit fly larvae and insulates the bin.

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to homeschool or not in nyc?

16 September 2015 by Nathalie Abejero Leave a Comment

Catching up on some long-overdue reading about homeschooling. Had no idea how big a movement it is, but I’m not surprised.

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From The Profound Ways that Schooling Harms Society, perfectly capturing why more parents are taking this route:

…interesting not only to look at what your children are required to learn in school, but at what they are not required to learn.  While your kids are very busy toiling over algebra and chemistry, international trade agreements are being forged and currencies are being manipulated by entities that most Americans don’t even know the names of, much less the inner workings of.  Kids are compelled to solve quadratic equations and write essays on Shakespeare, and they graduate without understanding how to calculate the interest on credit card debt or decode a mortgage agreement.  They learn an old fable called “How a Bill Becomes Law,” while corporate lobbyists draft legislation that will pollute their air and water, deny them health care and unemployment benefits, and put barely tested drugs on the market and genetically modified organisms in their food system.  And in the developing world, teenagers are struggling with — and more often than not, being defeated by — English Romantic poets and high school physics while the World Bank and IMF are negotiating incentives for foreign investment that will lead to their ancestral lands being sold out out from under them to foreign timber and mining companies and Wall Street speculators in agricultural land.

Our kids are so drowned in disconnected information that it becomes quite random what they do and don’t remember, and they’re so overburdened with endless homework and tests that they have little time or energy to pay attention to what’s happening in the world around them. They are taught to focus on competing with each other and gaming the system rather than on gaining a deep understanding of the way power flows through their world. The most academically “gifted” students excel at obedience, instinctively shaping their thinking to the prescribed curriculum and unconsciously framing out of their awareness ideas that won’t earn the praise of their superiors. Those who resist sitting still for this process are marginalized, labeled as less intelligent or even as mildly brain-damaged, and, increasingly, drugged into compliance.

More intriguingly:

In what should be considered a chilling development, there are murmurings of the idea of creating globalstandards for education – in other words, the creation of a single centralized authority dictating what every child on the planet must learn.

Yikes.

That techies are homeschooling in droves is interesting, since it reflects the people we know personally. Here’s a piece from Feb 2015, with useful links: The Techies Who Are Hacking Education by Homeschooling Their Kids.

…Problems arise, the thinking goes, when kids are pushed into an educational model that treats everyone the same—gives them the same lessons and homework, sets the same expectations, and covers the same subjects. The solution, then, is to come up with exercises and activities that will help each kid flesh out the themes and subjects to which they are naturally drawn.

Even back when we thought we’d stay in Asia, families have plenty of resources to draw on to homeschool. We’re fortunate to have moved to NYC where it’s one big learning environment. I was about to sign up for a book launch of Nonstop Metropolis: A New York City Atlas at Queens Museum to hear a friend read one of his essays when I wandered over to its education programming. Most museums have curriculum and tour options that can be adapted to my 3 and 5yo and their friends. Here are some from prominent cultural institutions I googled in under 5 minutes:

  • American Museum of Natural History
  • Metropolitan Museum of Art –
  • New York Botanical Garden
  • Carnegie Hall

There are readings and literary events for kids at indie bookstores (e.g. character visits at The Strand look cool if your kids know Elmo, Clifford and other widely-read characters), and high-quality curriculums on the web developed by people in varied disciplines. Check out #homeschool and #curriculum on your favorite social media. Every borough has homeschooling groups and co-ops, and the members often invite other groups to join their major events and activities.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: curriculum, homeschool, homeschooling, museums, New York, new york city, nyc, unschooling

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